Ask Me Anything

This section is inspired by Tumblr’s “Ask Me Anything” section. Feel free to throw me more questions. If it’s a good question, I’ll answer it and add it to the list. Questions like “Do you give golden showers?” should be sent directly to me by email since they directly pertain to my session offerings. This section is for you, my dear subs, to learn more about me as a person, so don’t waste your wishes.

How did you get started in BDSM?

I was first introduced to the world of kink when I was a mere 18 years of age. I garnered about 8 years of experience as a submissive before deciding to try my hand at domination. Admittedly, it took me longer than it should have to get into domination because I am by nature a perfectionist and I refused to do anything to others if I did not know how to do it well and safely. I've been practising BDSM for more than 15 years now and a good half of that time has been spent honing my craft as a dominant. 

What’s your “thing”?

Undoubtedly, I love responsive submissives. I have to say that they are my "thing", more so than any kink. In fact, it doesn't really matter what I'm doing so long as they're responding enthusiastically through moans, groans and sighs of pleasure or pain. That's what really really gets me going. I love energy in a scene, and there's nothing more attractive than a responsive submissive. 

Is beating up guys kind of like stress relief?

Yes and no. I want to first establish that I never punish a submissive in anger. I believe very strongly that a dominant must first be able to control his/her feelings, then only are they able to control another. So, no, I do not take my anger out of my submissives. I will never strike someone to help me forget about my troubles, so to speak. I do, however, very much enjoy inflicting pain, or creating intense sensations. It turns me on, and since sexual activity is a form of stress relief, yes, beating guys up is kind of like that for me. 

Dominating someone can actually also be very tiring, the exact opposite of stress relief. When I'm engaging in certain forms of play that require me to be hyper focused, such as needle play (yes, I do offer more advanced forms of play), I enter dom space which wipes out my energy very quickly. I can crash after the session and that isn't very stress relieving at all. However, that's not to say it isn't satisfying. But this is why I don't schedule more than two or three sessions in a day. I find my mental capacity can only cater to that many.

Do you feel a sense of pride about what you do?

If reading this far hasn't told you that I'm bloody proud of my work, I don't know what will. So, yes, I am very proud of what I do! I feel an immense sense of satisfaction when a session goes well. When my submissives send me letters of appreciation after a rewarding session, I always feel glad that I was able to help them access the headspace that they needed. It's also fun when they are awed by the amount of equipment I own. It's certainly not the biggest, but I guess 15 years of toy buying can amount to a sizeable collection.

What are some of the more recent skills you've picked up?

Needle play and single tailing would be the two skills I picked up in the more recent years. I've gotten pretty good at them both - not great, but decent enough to engage in safely. I make it a point to attend workshops locally and internationally on a regular basis to consistently upgrade my skills.

Do you only take males as clients, or do you also see female submissives?

My clients have been primarily male thus far, but I am actually very much bisexual and I would love to see female submissives. Some of my hottest scenes have been with other women, so yes, if you’re female and you’d like to experience a well-planned and well-executed session with a professional dominatrix, you know where to find me.

Do you cater for subs who only visit Singapore every now and then?

A sizable proportion of my clientele falls into this category. Yes, I do cater for visiting subs. You will still have to complete the contact form and go through the screening process like everyone else, and you will be required to place a deposit via PayPal since you will not be able to make an inter-bank transfer.

Do you offer custom clips?

I have not explored this, but I am very keen to do so. Email me if you have a custom clip request and we can work something out.

What would you like to know?